Childhood passes by so quickly. I realized this in my first job, that first time I received a sounding off from a higher up and knew whining and crying would make me look like a fool. I remembered this the first time I had a bill to pay and knew it would be improper to pass it on to my parents since I had my own money. I think one time or another we all face responsibilities so overwhelming you’ll wish you were a kid again.
But facing adulthood is important. Everyone was put on this world for a reason. Discovering and fulfilling one’s mission may require us to be plucked out from our comfort zone. To resist such a development would be wasting one’s life as well as the talent and skills that go with the package.
Allow yourself to be plucked out of your comfort zone and allow the rest of the world to benefit from what you have to offer.
Everyone today is always in a rush. A rush to get to that meeting, a rush to get home to feed the family. A rush to get to school for a major exam that starts in five minutes. Seriously, everyone seems to be moving like every move is a matter of life and death. And, it can be – you can be a heart attack waiting to happen if you don’t start to loosen up.
Life goes on even if you miss that meeting. Your kids won’t starve if dinner is a few minutes late. Flunking an exam isn’t going to stop the sun from rising tomorrow. Of course, delay has its consequences – the end of the world isn’t one of them.
But living life on the fast lane will take it’s toll. Not only is it stressful, you miss out on all the good stuff along the journey to where you’re headed. Slow down and enjoy the scenery.
The long time attempts to revive the death penalty in the country was given a glimmer of hope in the lower house as the House of Representatives managed to get a bare majority through on the second reading of the bill. However, the said bill died a natural death in the upper house as the Senate failed to unite with a single voice for its revival.
There is no need to reiterate the long debated issues on the morality (or the lack of it) of the death penalty, human rights, the right to life, and the list goes on of the repeated arguments to trample the most brutal form of capital punishment. Nor is there a need to dwell on the emotionally charged arguments raised by human rights victims and their advocates, the main theme pointing to the ease of fighting for the rights of criminals until you, or someone close to you, become one of their victims.
What is seriously wrong with the Philippine version of the death penalty is its focus on drug related crimes, at the neglect of all other heinous crimes plaguing the nation. The drafted bill that made it past the lower house was clearly an attempt to validate the controversial extrajudicial killings which have made the current administration notoriously popular with the international community.
Laws should be based on reason and they should be made to address long term problems of the whole nation – and not just to satisfy the whims of a current administration. Laws should not single out a certain category of crimes when there are other crimes equally deserving of the same penalty.
The death penalty is not wrong per se – there is just something wrong with the Philippine version.
The possible rebirth of the death penalty
Reciprocal death penalty
Justice, Davao Death Squad style
via Daily Prompt: Denial
We’ve all been in that situation where we choose to turn a blind eye to what is right in front of us. Either because reality hits too close to home and facing it becomes a terrifying prospect. It could also be because reality is forcing us to confront something we’re just not ready to deal with.
Some people live life pretending everything is okay, then go home at night and cry in the privacy of their solitude – a place where there is no need to put on a front to fool other people, a place where one is stripped naked of the veneer of denial that there is nowhere left to hide.
They are everywhere – the macho gay neighbor who prefers to keep his lovers inside the closet, his parents who pretend not to see the longing look their son sends to the family driver, his wife who prefers to believe his excuses not to hold her at night. It could also be your other neighbor who used to own a house and a car, who now borrows a few bucks from you now and then, who you’ve seen holding solo pot sessions after a declaration of bankruptcy.
Living in denial is the fastest way towards hitting rock bottom. Refusing to face problems won’t make them go away – they continue to grow in the backyard of your reality. And, one day, you realize the problem has become too big to ignore. Much better to face problems early and nip them in the bud.
via Daily Prompt: Devastation
Devastation is such a sad word with such a strong impact that you cannot ignore the onslaught of sadness. But to put things in perspective, a totally shattering experience in life is a test to the fortitude of the human spirit. The human ability to rise above challenge, and to adapt to the ever changing seasons of life.
Sadly, there are no guarantees that a devastating experience can be surpassed successfully. Some of us are strong enough to move foreward. Some need other people to cope. Some refuse to take the hand reached out by other people and sink inevitably into oblivion.
There’s a saying that goes: no man is an island. Sometimes life just gets too difficult to stand alone….and sometimes, even the strongest among us, need a helping hand.
Its good to reach out to others – they may just need a hand.
via Daily Prompt: Privacy
Two faced people are people we love to hate. But, come to think of it, is there really a human being who only shows one face to the entire world? With all honesty, I cannot claim to be such a person. My hats off to anyone who can, while maintaining the utmost sincerity to one’s self.
Truth be told, we all face circumstances in life when we need to put up a front. A brave face when confronted with a dangerous situation. A white lie to spare the feelings of a loved one. A yes where one’s heart is screaming no…sounds familiar?
Only we know what is truly going on inside. Only we know what aspect of ourselves we want the world to see. To me, this is the essence of privacy – taking control of what we wish to reveal, and what we wish to remain in the dark side of our being.
via Daily Prompt: Shine
People are judgmental. We all take to what we see on the outside, and its common to assume that a seemingly quiet, seemingly plain human being will have nothing to offer. No matter how common or ordinary a person may appear to be, I can assure you they know something you don’t, and they can do something you can’t. How can I be so sure? Because I am also sure that every human being is unique. There is something in each of us that no one else has. Once a person you cherish is gone, trust me on this, no one can take their place.
Thus, a journey towards self discovery is of paramount importance so we can make the most of who we are. The world imposes conformity through rules, and it is so easy to lose one’s individuality in the process. Losing one’s individuality is tantamount to blowing out one’s light – a light, that no matter how bright or dim, will have its own unique effect on the world.
Find out what makes you different and carry your uniqueness like a torch because there is no one else like you.